Ushering in the New Year

I've always wanted to host a formal New Year's Eve dinner party, but at this stage of life, most of my friends have family commitments or are just too tired to enjoy such an evening.  But, this year I was determined to round up some people who could celebrate with me.  I envisioned an evening of feasting with friends, much like what I look forward to when we arrive in heaven.  It ended up being only seven of us, but it was the perfect number for intimate dining.

The menu:

Appetizers:

Flat bread with Parsley Pesto

Goat Cheese Tarts

Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms

Ham & Cheese Crisps

Spiced Grape Juice

Assorted wines

Main Course:

Cream of Zucchini Soup

Jan's Salad with Pomegranates

Rubbed Pork Loin

Roasted Potato Mix

Buttered Green Beans with Cashews

Rolls with Butter and Green Pepper Jam

Dessert:

Candy Cane Brownie Trifles

Coffee & Tea

It was a fun evening - everyone was so relaxed and enjoyed each other's company   (Most likely the wine had something to do with that!).  I hope to do it again another year!

Christmas Traditions

My mom used to bake Sand Tarts every Christmas - a fond memory for me and my siblings. After my mother passed away in 2003, the tradition was passed on to me since no one else in my family cares for tedious process of making cut-out cookies, even though they love eating them! I use the same cookie cutters that my mother used, so it always feels very nostalgic. These are usually the only Christmas cookies I get around to baking, but it's a tradition I enjoy. And, my family always looks forward to them, especially since that's the only time of year we get to eat Sand Tarts!

Snowflakes....

http://www.marthastewart.com/article/pipe-cleaner-snowflake-ornaments

2009 Christmas Memory Ornaments

My nephew and I had fun making felted wool scarves for Christmas gifts this year, and these two ornaments were made out of the scraps that were left over:

 Ricky made this one for me.

I love this little mitten ornament!  I had him trace around his hand to draw a mitten, then I shrunk the pattern down on the copier so that it was truly his.  :)

Ricky loves doing origami, so this dove became a perfect remembrance.


We also had fun making a variety of pipecleaner ornaments last February (during the Super Bowl!).  For directions, click on the Martha Stewart link below each picture.

 http://www.marthastewart.com/article/easy-ornaments-wreath

http://www.marthastewart.com/article/pipe-cleaner-ornaments

 http://www.marthastewart.com/article/easy-ornaments-stocking

 http://www.marthastewart.com/article/pipe-cleaner-snowflake-ornaments

My ornament collection keeps growing, so decorating the tree becomes more and more special each and every year!

Welcome December!

Decorator Sewing

 Shirred Valance



Roman Shades on French Doors

I HATE Halloween....

I think it's the creepiest holiday ever....

I hate opening the door on a dark evening to who knows who....

And, I have to admit it annoys me that people who would never bother with me at any other time suddenly want to come see me just so they can get a handout.

I hate feeling like I have to pull the blinds and hide out in my OWN home.

I always feel like such a party pooper.

AND, there's nothing worse than a little kid ringing the doorbell even when my porch light is turned OFF, and me having to say, "Sorry, I'm not participating.  I don't have any candy for you...."

But, I was thrilled that my neighbor knows me well enough...



... to ring my doorbell anyway because...

... she knows I would love to see her daughter in her special costume.

And, her daughter was perfectly fine with the fact that "Miss Andrea" didn't have any candy for her.

Happy Halloween!

Parsley Pesto

I was cleaning out my garden for the season and had a ton of Italian parsley left; I hated to see it go to waste, but what do I do with it?? So, I looked up parsley recipes on line and found one for parsley pesto. I made a bunch of different variations, before I came up with the perfect version. Yum, YUM, YUM! It’s fabulous and freezes well.

Here's the recipe!

Parsley Pesto

(Adapted from the following link: http://www.ilunchbox.com/recipes/recipes-categories/dressings-and-dips/parsley-pesto.php?searchresult=1&sstring=parsley+pesto)

4 cups flat Italian parsley leaves, washed and drained *

½ cup pine nuts **

½ cup olive oil

3 cloves garlic

1/2 - 1 t. sea salt

pepper to taste

Process above ingredients in food processor until the pesto is smooth, scraping down sides as necessary. Add more oil as needed to get a smooth consistency.

MY NOTES:

* Be sure to use Italian parsley – the flavor is much better.

**Walnuts are just as good – pine nuts aren’t worth the expense!

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"There's a difference between being on time and trying to be on time. "
-Orlando, Massage Therapist at CTCA Philly

Hope

"Be aware that it is possible for goodness to come out of this nightmare."
- Michael S. Barry, A Season for Hope

I Love...

Hydrangeas!

Last Snips of Summer

Today my friend Rose snipped some of the final blooms of the summer and turned them into a sweet flower arrangement, intentionally bringing life and beauty into her day. So pretty!

The Serenity Prayer

The first part of this prayer is familiar to many, but few are probably aware that there is there's more:

"God grant me the serenity

to accept the things I cannot change;

courage to change the things I can,

and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;

enjoying one moment at a time;

accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;

taking, as He did, this sinful world

as it is, not as I would have it;

trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His will;

that I may be reasonably happy in this life

and supremely happy with Him

forever in the next.

- Reinhold Niebuhr

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"What you eat is not as important as what's eating you."
- Mike Barry, CTCA Philly chaplain

The Undertow of Cancer

"Cancer is like being caught in an undertow.  Upon realizing that they are in danger, people usually panic and think, 'I'm going to die!'  Furiously they try to swim to shore.  However, according to the experts, they are the ones least likely to live.  Consider this advice:

When caught in a rip current [undertow], one should not fight it, but rather swim parallel to the shoreline in order to leave it.  If you see a person caught in one, yell at them to do so.  Floating until the current disperses into deeper waters is another method of surviving such a dangerous incident, but it may leave the swimmer farther out from shore.

Floating until the current disperses into deeper water?  Sounds crazy, doesn't it?  Allowing the wave to take you further away from the shore?  And yet, that is what survival requires of us.  How is that any different than faithfully trusting in God?  During the undertow times in our lives, our human nature is to panic and struggle, when actually just the opposite will help us overcome our problems.

The expert advice is, 'If you see a person caught in one, yell at them to do so.'  OK, so I'm now 'yelling' at you.  Calm down.  Lie on your back, so to speak.  Allow God to care for you.  Trust Him.  Don't panic, even though it makes sense to do so.  The ocean's pull might seem to take you away from safety, but it creates your best chance for survival.  Trust God."

- Michael S. Barry, The Art of Caregiving

God With Us

"God with us.  Don't we love the word 'with'?  'Will you go with me?' we ask.  'To the store, to the hospital, through my life?'  God says He will."
- Max Lucado, Cure for the Common Life

Blue Ribbon!

I entered this quilt in the Etown fair this week. It represents a significant milestone for me – I had pieced this particular quilt when I was in the middle of surgery and treatment in 2007. Quilting soothed my soul during that season and probably did more good for my health than any supplement or pill I could have swallowed. I had so much trouble sleeping a lot of the time, so sometimes if I was wide awake in the middle of the night and couldn’t get back to sleep, I would get up and sew until I was tired enough to go back to bed. I had finished piecing the quilt and prepared it for the quilting process, but then folded it away and never had the chance to finish it once I was working full time again and trying to keep up with life. Then, 2 weeks ago I spent the day at the beach with my friend Brenda. I hadn’t been there in 2 years because of not feeling well – a crime for me because I love the beach! That day was so restorative and made me realize that I needed to make life-giving activities a higher priority in my schedule; finishing that quilt got bumped to the top of the priority list. I was happy to get it machine quilted in time to enter it in the fair (even though I had to stay up Sunday evening to get it finished)!

Banana Candy

My 6-year-old nephew LOVES dehydrated bananas - could it be because we call them "Banana Candy"??

I stumbled across a case of organic bananas at Root's this week for a steal and couldn't pass up the bargain. Needless to say, I have all the dehydrated bananas I'll need for quite a while! Just a tip - if you decide to try drying some bananas, be sure to use organic ones - the flavor is so much better!

Is there anything better...

...than a day at the beach?!

25th Spiritual Anniversary

My friend Rose hosted a very meaningful anniversary celebration this evening to mark the 25th anniversary of her decision to become a Christian.  She invited persons that had played a significant role in her spiritual growth over the past years.  The sunflowers are one of Rose's favorite flowers and suggest a reminder to put our hope in the Son.  What a special evening!

Book Excerpt

"God doesn't throw away His handiwork and start from scratch - instead, He uses the same canvas to repair and make more beautiful the painting marred by the vandal.  The vandal doesn't get the satisfaction of destroying his rival's masterpiece.  On the contrary, God makes an ever greater masterpiece out of what His enemy sought to destroy.
Satan wants us to give up on God, on our purpose and calling, and on our planet.  God reminds us, 'The One who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.'  (I John 4:4)  Satan seeks to destroy....  God seeks to restore....  God will win the battle for us."
- Randy Alcorn in Heaven

Entering the Digital World!

I finally caught up with the rest of the world and bought a digital camera today (after mooching off the research of a friend). This was my first attempt at a picture - oh my goodness, there's lots to learn!

The End of the Fruit Flies

Embarrassingly enough, I ended up with a nasty infestation of fruit flies this week.  I think I must have left some debris in the garbage disposal unknowingly.  Anyway, it was it was a pain!!  I was at my wits end - they got into some candied nuts I had made for one of my favorite salad recipes as well as my broccoli sprouts.  OK, it was time to put an end to the little stinkers!  I tried all kinds of supposedly tried-and-true methods to get rid of them, including trying to drown them in a solution of soapy water and vinegar, and creating a bottle trap with rotten a banana in the bottom, but to no avail.  But, I did find a successful solution - the vacuum cleaner!  Fruit flies can't survive the trip into the vacuum cleaner bag, so that's the end.  Period.  It's quick and easy.  It did take a few days to catch all of them, but once I sucked them all up, that was it!  I've been much more careful about emptying the compost bucket and keeping the garbage disposal clean, but at least I know what to do if I have a problem again!

Decorator Sewing

Swags and jabots mounted on a board are such a classic window treatment - they never fail to please a customer!

Roman  Shade for the adjacent bath in matching fabric.

3rd Annual Easter Egg Coloring Tradition

Book Excerpt

"God wants to do more in your life than you can ask or imagine."
- Lynn Eib in He Cares New Testament

Book Excerpt

"When my body is buried in the ground, I want all the angels to say, 'She shouldered her burdens with great strength, maximized her opportunities to bring glory to God, and squeezed every blessing out of life that her Creator intended her to have.'"
- Shannon Ethridge in Completely His

Pasta Fagioli

I came across this hearty soup recipe on the AICR (American Institute of Cancer Research) website, then tweaked it a bit.  They have a wonderful collection of healthy yet delicious, colorful recipes, and have recently published The New American Plate Cookbook. 

My friend Glo tasted this soup, and said, "Oh my goodness!  YUM-O!!!! Delish! Amazing!"  My friend Amy made it and said it was fabulous; her husband loved it as well.  So, you may want to consider joining the fan club for the recipe, the website and the cookbook.  :)

"Pasta Fagioli" simply means pasta and beans.  This recipe doubles nicely.

Pasta Fagioli

1 T. olive oil

1 medium yellow onion, chopped

4 cloves garlic, minced

3 medium stalks celery, chopped into 1/2" pieces

1 1/2 t. dried Italian seasoning

1/4 t. crushed red pepper flakes

1 1/2 t. sea salt

1 (15 oz.) can chicken broth

1 (8 oz.) can tomato sauce

1 (8 oz.) can tomatoes, chopped

1 c. uncooked whole-wheat rotini pasta

2 c. fresh spinach or Swiss chard, chopped

1 (15 oz.) can cannellini beans

2 t. dried parsley

2 T. freshly grated Parmesan cheese

Heat oil in large saucepan.  Cook onion, garlic, celery, Italian seasoning, red pepper and salt until onions are tender.  Stir in broth, tomato sauce and tomatoes.  Reduce heat to low and simmer approximately 20 minutes.

Add pasta and cook until tender according to package directions.  Add spinach, beans and parsley.  Stir gently for a few minutes until spinach wilts and mixture is heated through.  Serve with grated cheese on top.

Makes 6 servings.

Scottish Crackers

I was so excited to find this recipe!  I've been trying to avoid refined flours and unhealthful fats, so that means I've been cracker deprived for quite a while now.  These crackers satisfy that craving!  Plus, they're easy to make. 

Scottish Crackers

Source:  adapted from The New American Plate Cookbook

1 1/3 c. quick-cooking rolled oats

2/3 c. whole wheat flour

3/4 t. sea salt

3 1/2 T. olive oil

3/8 c. water

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

In a food processor, pulse oats until they resemble very coarse flour.  Add flour, salt and olive oil.  Pulse until mixture resembles coarse meal.  Transfer mixture to a medium bowl.  Stir in just enough water to make the mixture cohere like pie crust dough.  Form the dough into a ball.

Using parchment paper, roll out dough to a thickness of about 1/8".  Place parchment paper on cookie sheet, and bake about 12 minutes, or until lightly colored.  Remove from oven and cut into 1 1/2" squares with a pizza cutter. Turn over the crackers and bake about 12 minutes more or until lightly colored on the second side.  (Do not allow them to brown.)

Transfer crackers to a wire rack and cool completely.  Store at room temperature in a metal container with a tight-fitting lid for 3-5 days, or freeze.

Living

"Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says, 'Oh no, she’s awake!'"
–unknown (from Rose C.)

Raw Milk Yogurt

It took me a while to figure out just how to go about it, but after researching on line, reading my Nourishing Traditions cookbook and consulting my friend Julia, a veteran yogurt maker, I finally attempted making yogurt.  So much simpler than I anticipated!  I had been wanting to make it for a while since I'm more and more convinced of the health benefits of raw milk, especially the probiotic benefits of raw milk yogurt.  For those of you who are squeamish about raw milk, the good bacteria in yogurt keeps any bad bacteria at bay, so yogurt is an good introduction into the world of raw milk products.  The probiotics in yogurt peak at day 7 and need to be consumed by day 14 to get the most mileage, so it's almost impossible to get much probiotic benefit from consuming commercial yogurt, thus making homemade raw milk yogurt worth the minimal effort that it takes to make it. 

On the big day, I heated the milk, put the yogurt in the dehydrator, then went to bed.

In the morning, I couldn't wait to jump out of bed and come down to the kitchen and find out if it worked.  It did!  It was like Christmas!  Only my friend Julia could understand my elation over such things.  :)

Here's my method:

Gently heat milk (whole or with cream skimmed off for butter or another use) to 110 degrees.

Whisk in 2-3 T. yogurt from a previous batch of yogurt or commercial yogurt.*

Place in a wide mouth jar or bowl with lid, allowing 3/4" head space.

Place in dehydrator; set temp to 100 degrees and allow to incubate overnight or for 8-10 hours.

Refrigerate until thickened.

Yogurt is so versatile!  If you drain the whey off the yogurt anywhere from a few hours to several days, you can create a thicker yogurt product with less tartness which works nicely in place of sour cream or cream cheese in recipes.  Simply line a strainer with a coffee filter, suspend it over a bowl and place it in the refrigerator until the desired consistency is reached.

*I like to keep a small container of freeze-dried yogurt culture in my freezer so I can make yogurt even if I don't have any yogurt on hand from a previous batch.  You can purchase the culture at Miller's Natural Foods in Bird-in-Hand or online.

New Living Room Curtains

I finally have vacation time to use for something other than medical appointments, so today I took the day off (the first possible day in 2009!) to sew some more curtains for myself.

I was so pleased with how the silk panels turned out for my office that I decided to do the same window treatment in the living room, only with another color of silk.  This gives a nice uniform look to the front of the house.  Again, I allowed them to puddle on the floor to avoid the tedious process of making sure the length is precise.  I hand tacked a strip of floral fabric along the side hems to give the appearance of another layer of curtain underneath.  I'm not completely satisfied with the sheer Roman Shades - I couldn't find sheer fabric in 100% cotton, so I settled for a polyester; it just doesn't drape well.  But for now they'll do, especially since the fabric was only $3.00 per yard.  :)

Paper Evergreens

I really enjoyed making these sweet evergreen trees with my nephew!  He caught on quickly and had as much fun as I did, and even added some snow and a beard.  :)  I found old spools in the perfect sizes and colors at the local thrift shop, so that made them even more special.  Click on the Martha Stewart link below for directions.

http://www.marthastewart.com/how-to/paper-evergreens

Birthday Window Treatments

What better way to spend a birthday than stitching new kitchen curtains!

I was tickled to find this 100% silk fabric at the Calico Corners outlet in Lancaster for only $5.00 per yard!!  It was the perfect match for my kitchen wallpaper, and coordinates nicely with the new laundry room paint.  There was just enough to do three Roman Shades.  Silk is a wonderful fabric for window treatments - I love it!!  These are basically stationary Roman Shades.  They can raised and  lowered, but the pleated design makes it tricky to lower them, then get the folds back in place neatly, so I'm content to leave them be.

 

Laundry Room Makeover

I'm so pleased with how the wainscoting turned out in my laundry room! I wasn't sure just how high it should go. We chose to use the rule of thirds and ran it 64" high, which worked out perfect - 64" is 2/3 of the standard 8 foot (84") ceiling height as well as 1/3 of the cabinet height. I wish I had a before picture of the papered walls to show you - this is a huge improvement! I love wainscoting - the glossy finish is so much easier to care for than painted walls with a satin finish, and it certainly looks better than wallpaper. I also love the coral color - I wanted a fun burst of color, and knew it wouldn't be a big deal to paint over it if I tired of the color at some point.

Suffering and Restoration

"If we allow Him, God will make our suffering into something useful and life-giving - for others and for us.  That is His way.  He uses our ruins.  Our pain and mistakes become valuable materials in the hands of the Lord."
- Ruth Graham in In Every Pew Sits a Broken Heart

Worth Contemplating

"God specializes in restoration - it is His best work."
- Ruth Graham in In Every Pew Sits a Broken Heart

Worth Contemplating

"Remember, the Father is never closer to the vine than when He is pruning it."
- Julie Kuntzman, in Praying Through Cancer

Worth Contemplating

The Chinese symbol for crisis is "danger" + "opportunity".

Worth Contemplating

"Listen.  It is the greatest compliment you can give: that I am worth hearing."
- Don Hoffman in Experiencing Grief

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Don't call it a mistake, call it an education."
- Thomas Edison

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Be who you are

and say what you feel,

because those who mind don't matter,

and those who matter don't mind."

- Dr. Seuss

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Effort is everything....until you screw up. "
-J. Peifer (M.V. co-worker)

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"There is no such thing as pain without purpose in the life of a believer."
- Jerry Bridges, Growing Your Faith

Dehydrator

After much research, I finally purchased an Excalibur Dehydrator.  Previously, I had a round dehydrator someone had kindly given me, but I just wasn't satisfied with it.  The heat didn't distribute evenly, so the trays needed to be rotated frequently.  And, it really didn't hold that much.  This model is well worth the money.  The temperature is adjustable and it has a timer, so it can dehydrate away, even if you're not home.

The Excalibur Dehydrators come in five and nine-tray options; I selected the five tray model simply because I have limited storage space.  But, the main selling feature for me was that the trays can be removed, and it can be used for raising bread or making yogurt.

Update, Spring 2011

I am still extremely pleased with this dehydrator!  I use it for dehydrating fruits and vegetables and making yogurt.  My neighbor is getting into vegetable gardening and was researching dehydrators; she asked me what I thought of my Excalibur, and I told her I would highly recommend it!

Why Did the Chicken Cross the Road?

I'm part of a Cancer Prayer Support Group that meets once a month. Lynn Eib, who leads the group, believes laughter is an important part of the cancer journey. Each time we meet she shares some jokes with us and we always have a good laugh. I laughed and laughed at this one, and still laugh every time I read it, so thought you might want to chuckle with me!

WHY DID THE CHICKEN CROSS THE ROAD?

BARACK OBAMA:

The chicken crossed the road because it was time for a CHANGE! The chicken wanted CHANGE!

JOHN MC CAIN:

My friends, that chicken crossed the road because he recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialog with all the chickens on the other side of the road.

HILLARY CLINTON:

When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to ensure -- right from Day One! -- that every chicken in this country gets the chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn't about me.......

DR. PHIL:

The problem we have here is that this chicken won't realize that he must first deal with the problem on 'THIS' side of the road before it goes after the problem on the 'OTHER SIDE' of the road. What we need to do is help him realize how stupid he's acting by not taking on his 'CURRENT' problems before adding 'NEW' problems.

OPRAH:

Well, I understand that the chicken is having problems, which is why he wants to cross this road so bad. So instead of having the chicken learn from his mistakes and take falls, which is a part of life, I'm going to give this chicken a car so that he can just drive across the road and not live his life like the rest of the chickens.

GEORGE W. BUSH:

We don't really care why the chicken crossed the road. We just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.

COLIN POWELL:

Now to the left of the screen, you can clearly see the satellite image of the chicken crossing the road...

ANDERSON COOPER (CNN REPORTER):

We have reason to believe there is a chicken, but we have not yet been allowed to have access to the other side of the road.

JOHN KERRY:

Although I voted to let the chicken cross the road, I am now against it! It was the wrong road to cross, and I was misled about the chicken's intentions. I am not for it now, and will remain against it.

NANCY GRACE (CNN LEGAL ANALYST):

That chicken crossed the road because he's GUILTY! You can see it in his eyes and the way he walks.

PAT BUCHANAN:

To steal the job of a decent, hardworking American.

MARTHA STEWART:

No one called me to warn me which way that chicken was going. I had a standing order at the Farmer's Market to sell my eggs when the price dropped to a certain level. No little bird gave me any insider information.

DR SEUSS:

Did the chicken cross the road? Did he cross it with a toad? Yes, the chicken crossed the road, but why it crossed I've not been told.

ERNEST HEMINGWAY:

To die in the rain. Alone.

GRANDPA:

In my day we didn't ask why the chicken crossed the road. Somebody told us the chicken crossed the road, and that was good enough.

BARBARA WALTERS:

Isn't that interesting? In a few moments, we will be listening to the chicken tell, for the first time, the heart warming story of how it experienced a serious case of molting, and went on to accomplish its life long dream of crossing the road.

ARISTOTLE:

It is the nature of chickens to cross the road.

JOHN LENNON:

Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together, in peace.

BILL GATES:

I have just released eChicken2007, which will not only cross roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your check book. Internet Explorer is an integral part of the Chicken. This new platform is much more stable and will never
cra...#@&&^(C% ........reboot.

ALBERT EINSTEIN:

Did the chicken really cross the road, or did the road move beneath the chicken?

BILL CLINTON:

I did not cross the road with THAT chicken. What is your definition of chicken?

AL GORE:

I invented the chicken!

COLONEL SANDERS:

Did I miss one?

DICK CHENEY:

Where's my gun?

AL SHARPTON:

Why are all the chickens white? We need some black chickens.

Enjoy the health and wellness benefits of your laughter!!

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Don't play out tomorrow's worst case scenarios today."
- Rose C.

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"What matters most after you've died is not what you've learned, but what you've taught."
- unknown source, referenced in Raw Foods Documentary

Worth Contemplating

"The absence of fear is not courage; the absence of fear is some kind of brain damage.  Courage is the capacity to go ahead in spite of the fear, or in spite of the pain."
- M. Scott Peck, Further Along the Road Less Traveled

2nd Annual Easter Egg Coloring Tradition

My brother-in-law's artwork!

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Let your food be your medicine, and your medicine be your food."
- Hippocrates (as quoted by Emilie Tierney, Masonic Villages' Wellness Coach)

Valentine's Day Wishes

I couldn't resist sharing with you this Valentine's Day card that I got in the mail today:

It’s Valentine’s Day, and Love is in the air….
… along with toxins
and carcinogens
and flakes of dead skin
and dust particles
and flying insects
and mold spores
and killer viruses…

Anyway, Happy Valentine's Day!!

Welcome to Holland

A co-worker sent the following essay to me last summer in the thick of my cancer nightmare. It so describes the terrain of cancer, but also brings hope to any disappointing scenario that we might find outselves in.

WELCOME TO HOLLAND

by Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this:

When you are going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The Gondola's in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland".

"Holland?" you say. "What do you mean, Holland? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy".

But there has been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guidebooks. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around, and begin to notice that Holland has windmills. Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy, and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life you will always say, "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned".

And the pain of that will never, ever go away, because the loss of that dream is a very significant loss.

But if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things about Holland.

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"In matters of style, swim with the current;
in matters of principle, stand like a rock."
- Thomas Jefferson (as quoted on Masonic Village's intranet)

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Most people dread to find out when they die that they never really lived."
- Henry David Thoreau (as quoted in a Wellness Coach Presentation at Masonic Villages)

2007 Christmas Memory Ornament

I love Old World Christmas glass ornaments, and this was the perfect ornament to commemorate the 1st annual Gingerbread House that I did with my nephew this year!

1st Annual Gingerbread House...

... with my nephew Ricky.

:)

Dirty Dozen

I refer to this list often:

Dirty Dozen

The Environmental Working Group says you can lower your pesticide exposure by almost 90 percent if you replace the 12 most contaminated fruits and vegetables below with organic versions:

Fruits:
Apples
Cherries
Grapes (imported)
Nectarines
Peaches
Pears
Strawberries

Vegetables:
Celery
Lettuce
Sweet Bell Peppers
Potatoes
Spinach

Book Excerpt

"Surely no pain is like the searing pain of the heart when 'your God has not lived up to your expectations.'"
- Gene Edwards as referenced by Beth Moore in Believing God

Book Excerpt

"He [Satan] wants to steal our joy and replace it with hopelessness."
- Don Piper in 90 Minutes in Heaven

Book Excerpt

"My pain expands God's purpose."

NOT

"My pain proves God's absence."

- Max Lucado, It's Not About Me

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"We are not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be."
- C.S. Lewis, a referenced by Jan Karon in A Light in the Window

Book Excerpt

"He operated without anesthetic."
- Jan Karon, At Home in Mitford

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Many of God's lessons are learned through tears."
- T. L. Culyer

Quotes Worth Contemplating

"Safe?  Who said anything about safe?  Of course He's not safe.  But He's good."
-C.S. Lewis in Chronicles of Narnia (as referenced by John Ortberg in If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat)

Book Excerpt

"In the real issues of life, we are not just waiting around, we are waiting on God.  Therefore, we can trust His wisdom and timing.  We can wait with confidence.  We are waiting for Someone."
- John Ortberg in If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat

Worth Contemplating

"Loss of hope increases the odds of death 300%."
- John Ortberg in If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat

First Annual Easter Egg Coloring Tradition

Now that my nephew is old enough to enjoy coloring and hunting Easter eggs, my sister invited the family to get together and color eggs, then enjoy Easter dinner.  How fun!  I loved Easter as a kid, so this brought back all those special memories....

Book Excerpt

"It is wrong, it is sin, to accept or remain in a position that is a mismatch for you.  Perhaps that's a form of sin you've never even considered - the sin of staying in the wrong job.  But, God did not place you on this earth to waste away your years in labor that does not employ His design for your life, no matter how much you may be getting paid for it."
- Arthur Miller, as referenced by John Ortberg in If You Want to Walk on Water You've Got to Get Out of the Boat

Quotes Worth Contemplating??

"Behind every successful man is one surprised woman."
- Austrian friend of Rhonda's